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When we honestly ask ourselves which person in our lives means the most to us, we often find that it is those who, instead of giving much advice, solutions, or cures, have chosen rather to share our pain and touch our wounds with a gentle and tender hand. The friend who can be silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion, who can stay with us in an hour of grief and bereavement, who can tolerate not knowing, not curing, not healing and face with us the reality of our powerlessness, that is a friend who cares.

Henri Nouwen, Out of Solitude
[Submitted by Ed C.]

For anyone looking for someone to talk with about a new (or old) grief experience, the following are available:

  • Tom Golden's Grief and Healing Discussion [GAHD], available via the web
    **recommended web based general discussion area

  • The mailing list grief support groups at GriefNet.

  • Several newsgroups:

  • Transformations has a Grief and Loss support group. You can get to it via Internet Relay Chat or IRC.
    Using MIRC or PIRCH software:
    connect to server: chat.talkcity.com at port:6667
    and join #SUPPORTGROUP
    They meet every TUESDAY NIGHT from 8-10pm PT, 11pm-1am ET. Do join them!
    Transformations entire chat schedule
    Other chats from Transformations: PTSD, Cancer support, Caregivers support, Abuse survivors, Living Through Depression

  • WidowNet has an IRC Chat for widows and widowers.
    No real schedule but most active Tuesdays, Thursdays, Saturdays and Sundays after 8:00pm EST
    WidowNet also has a Mailing List support group.

  • A email discussions group called Suicide-Survivors is available.
    This list was highly recommended by a visitor named Susan who suggested I share this group with others.

  • The Web Broadcasting System (WBS) has a chat area for Coping with a Child's Death.

  • If you are a nursing professional, you should visit the 4Nurses chat area. Although not focused on death and dying, it is a gathering place for nursing professionals, and the subject of death and grief naturally comes up regularly. This area is not intended as a place for non-nurses to ask questions about death.

  • If you are a nurse involved in HIV/AIDS care, you can join Moira and Robbie at the HIV/AIDS Chat at the Virtual Nurse site.

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Email to Kathi Webster RN at webster@katsden.com

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